You Don't Always Have To Apologize. Here's When You Should — And When You Shouldn't
Growing up, my mother was frequently angry. Apologies, at least from what I observed, seemed to placate the situation. Over time, I began internalizing a belief that my parents' feelings were essentially my fault. To be clear, caring about how your actions affect others is rarely a bad thing. But the deeper problem seems to stem from the lack of understanding aroundwhywe apologize. Sometimes it’s just a reflex. And sometimes, it’s not coming from a place of concern at all....