Maybe it comes after you show your vulnerability or start having sex?

Whatever the circumstances are, if you’ve been there, you know this pattern is not fun.

Because we’recreating our realities from the inside out.

Shelly Bullard, MFT

We create with our energy and beliefs.

We’re all born into families that have very particular belief systems and relationship patterns.

And in that, we take on their beliefs.

The experiences we have when we’re young also create beliefs within us.

once you nail a belief system in place, you start attracting people and circumstances thatmatchthat belief system.

And because you believe this, you automatically re-create the experience in your relationships today.

We attract people who match what we believe about ourselves and relationships.

How can you change the pattern?

And that’s the reason you’re caught in this patternpossibly the only reason.

By seeing the belief system for what it is, you’ll automatically start to dissociate yourself from it.

It will naturally happen.

You’ll realize that “being left” is not the truth about you.

It’s an experience that you had, but it doesn’t define you.

From a spiritual perspective, the ultimate truth about you is that you arewhole, loved,andperfect.

And when this happens, the pattern will come to an end.

You’ll no longer have to play it out.

When you truly see this, you change.

And therefore, your world and relationships change, too.