Most people love flirting and going on promising dates with a new person.
You may have even gathered that you’re not cut out to settle down with anyone at all.
What does it mean when you lose interest as soon as you start a new relationship?
It’s totally normal for sparks to fade after the initial kindling.
“When the novel energy of an early connection goes down, everything just levels out.
“It’s never really about the quantity of intimate acts between a couple.
It’s about the quality.”
How attachment styles affect your intimacy style.
On the other hand, people withavoidant attachmentsare just downright uncomfortable with intimacy in general.
You have to pull it out and heal the wound.”
What to do about it: Heal from within.
You might think that once the spark is gone, that means the relationship is over.
And there’s no telling when you might move into this phase.
It depends on what’s going on in your lives, and it varies."
Page says fear is often the biggest thing keeping people from untying this particular knot.
“You have to ask yourself, ‘Do I want a great relationship with someone eventually?’
If the answer is yes, then say that you’ll do what it takes.
And if you’re scared, then do it scared!”
