When it comes togetting married, many couples opt for a ceremony and receptionbut not all of them.
Eloping has been around for centuries and has become increasingly popular in more recent years.
What does it mean to elope?
To elope simply means to get married privately.
Today, eloping just means having a private wedding with very few guests, if any at all.
And given the ongoing pandemic, more and more couples are choosing to elope.
“Eloping helps couples to set boundaries.
Preferring privacy over a ceremony
Another popular reason for eloping is privacy.
Spontaneity
Sometimes, the main reason for elopement can simply be a spur-of-the-moment decision.
Saving money
And of course, along with being stressful to plan, weddings are notoriously expensive.
Deciding whether to elope.
If you’re thinking about eloping, there are a few different factors to consider.
Cullins also says it’s important to consider the loved ones in your life.
Ultimately, though, “Remember that eloping is truly aboutwhat you want as a couple.
Give yourself permission to focus on the kind of experience you want without the guilt,” she says.
How to elope successfully:
Consider what kind of elopement you want.
Eloping can still be special, romantic, sweetanything you want, really!
Make it special.
Research marriage laws.
Be sensitive when you tell your loved ones.
As you’re probably figuring out, the family factor is what makes eloping somewhat controversial.
“Express your why.
Celebrate with others when/if you wish.
The takeaway.
If abig weddingisn’t your shtick, choosing to elope may be right for you.
