Here’s how the oral position otherwise known as the Kivin method works.
(Here’s a helpful diagram.)
Or the receiver might have their legs up, with their knees against their chest," Weiss explains.
In traditional oral, givers tend to focus on the clitoris only.
With the Kivin method, it can be easier to give the labia some well-deserved attention as well.
All of these areas can feel good when orally stimulated.
The giver can also be propped up on their knees if that’s more comfortable.
The positioning can be tricky, so Weiss suggests trial and error.
“Find a variation of the position that’s comfortable for both of you,” she says.
Moon emphasizes starting slowly to start off.
“Offer positive affirmation to help your partner relax.
Start slowly,” she says.
“Stay consistent once you find a technique the receiver likes.”
Moon reminds us, “Take cues from your partnereveryone likes different things when it comes to cunnilingus.”
Use your hands
Communicate with your partner about if they’d like other areas stimulated.
“Not everyone likes penetration, or penetration coupled with cunnilingus,” Moon notes, though.
“So ask your partner if they want to be fingered while you eat them out.
Don’t just assume it’s always on the menu.”
Using one of your free hands, you’ve got the option to also gently stimulate the perineum.
This isn’t proved to be definite, but it’s worth a try!
(Here’s how to have ablended orgasm, aka a clitoral and vaginal orgasm combined.)
Communicate
Receivers: Communicate!
Let your partner know which directions feel best, and how much pressure you like.
“Give feedback throughout the act about what feels best for you,” says Weiss.
For those who may have more sensitive clitorises, this alternate approach might make your knees buckle.
It’s not clear where the Kivin method got its name or who “Kivin” is.
There are tons of ways to engage sexually with your partner, including within oral sex.
All in all, have fun experimenting!
