“Slow and steady wins the race,” said the tortoise.
What is sensual massage?
It’s pleasure for pleasure’s sake.
Sex can sometimes follow patriarchal norms, centering more to penis pleasure than vaginal pleasure.
How to give a sensual massage
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Think about how your partner’s senses will react to the room’s temperature, scent, and lighting.
Try lighting a scented candle or turning on a lamp instead of using overhead lighting.
All of these details can help relax your partner as they ease into the sensual massage.
“Learning how to communicate in the moment is really crucial,” Darnell says.
“It’s too much for your body,” Darnell says.
“It’s too much information to process.”
The takeaway
Sensual massage encourages slower, more intentional sexwithout the pressure to orgasm.
