Was it fate that I met this person?

Is the guy I broke up with last year and cant stop thinking about really my soul mate?

Why do I feel such chemistry with this woman, chemistry like Ive never felt before?

Tanya Carroll Richardson

Here are some general answers to the most common questions I get about the connection between Spirit and love.

What is a past-life lover?

There was this strong connection very early on.

And the physical chemistry between us is off the charts."

What makes a twin flame?

The theory here is that each soul has a “twin” soul.

While the twin flame theory resonates with me, I have a couple of issues with it.

Perfection does not exist, and believing that it does can be highly self-sabotaging.

Also, you dont need anyone to complete you or your soul.

How do I know when I’ve found my soul mate?

This term always sounds warm and cozy to me.Soul matesfeel like home.

Soul mates stick together through thick and thin, good times and bad.

Imagine a soul mate like a trellis that helps a plant grow bigger and hardier than it otherwise would.

Soul mates should support you and challenge you to bring out the best in yourself.

These soul mates might be family members, friends, mentors, health care providers, or romantic partners.

If youve found a romantic soul mate, treasure your time together.

What can I learn from relationships that didn’t work out?

What if Id gone home with someone different from the party?

What if I had just called it quits on our second date?"

What was I looking for, or what problem was I trying to solve, with this partner?

What did I learn from this relationship that I will use in my next relationship?

What was my real subconscious motivation for staying in this relationship?

What made it hard to walk away from this person?

Who was I trying to hey?

How do soul contracts affect my love life?

Or your lover might have a soul contract to pass on and return to Spirit in her early 30s.

How can I partner with the universe on my love life?

I do not believe that anyone is “destined” to be alone.

If you are happy being single, great.