The Yes/No/Maybe list.

So, how does it work?

And it can getdetailed.

Kelly Gonsalves

Why sex therapists love it.

And if it’s not something you’ve been doing much of lately in your relationship?

The Yes/No/Maybe list is one simple and pretty fun way to get started.

Tips for doing the activity as a couple.

Find a copy of the Yes/No/Maybe list that speaks to you.

That includes judgment toward your partnerandjudgment toward yourself.

So, celebrate each other’s “no”!

It brings you closer every time you do.)

The takeaway.

), and then come into the activity together with open minds and a spirit of playful exploration.

You’ll be sure to walk away with a good bit of inspo for where to go next.