Trust me, I was not living the Hollywood love story.
Are you treating dating as a hobby, or are you dating like a professional?
The pro, on the other hand, gets down to business and gets results.
Behaviors of a dating hobbyist.
Treating dating like a numbers game.
Having no real system or strategy for swiping.
You are looking for love coming from a place of lack.
You are lacking fun, so you go looking for love.
You are lacking fitting in with your couple friends, and so you go looking for love.
Finding yourself on a lot of first dates.
“Next” is the classic motto of the dating hobbyist.
Behaviors of a dating professional.
Having a clear, soulful vision of what they want.
When you are clear on what you want in a partner, you will be able to see it.
Are you looking for someone to laugh with and experience new things around your city?
Are you looking for intellectual conversation and stimulation?
Are you looking for no-strings-attached sex?
Are you looking for love-a deep, intimate connection that lasts?
Creating structure around their dating process.
What might this look like?
Using more than chemistry to decide who to date.
Attraction is absolutely essential for a relationship to thrive.
