Valentine’s Day is right around the cornera great excuse to make someone’s day.
It forever changed the way I would share love with the people I care about.
It all started at Burning Man.
I looked back and found myself thinking about how fun she was to be with in that moment.
It was different, because of that one little word.
That word was “because.”
This simple act makes it easier for the recipient to feel the depth and sincerity of your feelings.
It shows them that we’re not just speaking from habit.
It shows that we’re voicing an authentic feeling, inspired by the present moment.
Embrace the discomfort and do it anyway.
Second, think about the last time someone shared their appreciation for you.
How did it make you feel?
It’s pretty hard to feel bad when someone tells you why you’re awesome.
Authentic compliments are always welcome.
So, if you have something nice to say, don’t keep it to yourself.
Say it to the person who wants, needs, and deserves to hear it.
Cialdini has spent his career researching how communication affects people, relationships, and trust.
Meaning that while telling someone you love them makes a difference, explaining why adds deeper meaning to it.
Just tell someone why you love them.
That single world will transform and deepen the way you share your appreciation.
I promise the recipient will be grateful.
And I know not all of us are throwing around L-bombs with our partners just yet.
Maybe you’re spending Valentine’s with a group of friends.
This is still a great day and a great way to spread some love.
Let’s make someone’s day.
