Then we see an energetic descent.
The secret is in the extended orgasm.
What is an extended orgasm?
The main idea: Sex is a major energy source.
Every time you have sex, you have the power to create new life.
What if you could take that power and channel it into your day-to-day existence?
Instead, they leak it unconsciously.
Men are especially vulnerable to this energy loss.
Consider the cliche of the man who has sex and rolls over and goes to sleep immediately.
There doesn’t have to be an energetic decline after orgasm.
you’re able to tap into that cycle and draw that energy back in for yourself.
How to have longer-lasting orgasms.
The key to all of this is expanding and recirculating your orgasmic energy.
Instead, for the extended orgasm, you bring that energy back in.
You do this through breathing.
All of these things curtail energy flow.
Instead, imagine having sex that’s like a yoga class: You breathe steadily throughout.
It carries you through to the other side.
Afterward, you feel like you broke through some stuck part of yourself.
As we see in yoga, breath carries energy.
The poses are simply vehicles for this process.
The same applies in sex.
By ensuring we breathe steadily throughout the sexual encounter, we redistribute our sexual energy throughout our bodies.
This energy is even stronger and denser than regular chi or prana.
In fact, the Taoists had a separate name for it: “ji.”
When we recirculate this potent ji throughout our systems, less of it escapes at the moment of orgasm.
In fact, it doesn’t have to escape at all.
What happens when you expand this flow of sexual energy is that you expand the experience of orgasm.
And it goes on.
Even when the physical contact stops, the feelings carry on.
What it feels like.
Imagine being perched on the edge of orgasm all night.
You canride this edgefor as long and as deeply as you might breathe.
By channeling your sexual energy consciously in your body, that flow spreads into all that you do.
You feel revitalized, connected, and tuned into the rhythms of life.
It also puts you in the running with Sting for marathon sex.
