Although each person’s life story was unique, certain disappointments were expressed time and time again.

They wish they had been more loving to the people who matter the most.

They wished they had the courage to say “I love you” more often.

Grace Bluerock, LCSW

It will mean the world to them, and it’ll make you feel pretty great too.

They wish they had been a better spouse, parent, or child.

The people I worked with often regretted taking their families for granted.

Remember toexpress gratitudefor them daily.

They wish they had not spent so much time working.

Although he was an excellent provider for her, he never got to know her well.

He never fully forgave himself for choosing time at work over time with her.

Remember that you have choices when it comes to your job.

Choose a company that values a healthy work-life balance.

It’s OK to respectfully decline additional assignments that would require you to work beyond your assigned hours.

Your job is important, but there are other things in life that are just as important.

They wish they had taken more risks.

Many felt that a fear of failure caused them to play it too safe.

Consider making a list of everything you have ever wanted to experience in life.

They wish they had been happier and enjoyed life more.

Most people regretted the time they wasted worrying about things beyond their control.

They didn’t realize they were capable of choosing fun and happiness until it was too late.

Spend a few minutes every day doing something that you love and that brings you joy.

They wish they had lived their dream.

You are the only one who knows what’s best for you.

Allow yourself to be open to endless possibilities.

When envisioning your dream, rememberthe mantra, “this or something even better.”

They wish they had taken better care of themselves.

They wished they had made self-care more of a priority.

Make time to go on a nature walk, take a nap, or meditate each and every day.

They wish they had done more for others.

They wish they had chosen more meaningful work.

Take some time to get crystal clear on what you are passionate about.

you could then begin looking for work that speaks to these passions.