Does that mean it’s still sex?
Sex is anything you want the main course to be, and that includes oral sex.
The perks of oral sex.
Adding that, “Oral sex can feel incredibly connecting, more so than penetrative sex.”
Another large perk of oral sex is it provides balance in pleasure.
“Many find the dual pleasure incredibly erotic,” says Cline.
However, this position isn’t without its (solvable) downsides.
“The 69 position is actually trash for many people,” Sweet says.
Sit & Kneel
You sit; they kneel.
To make this position more comfortable, the giver can put a pillow beneath their knees.
(A pillow can help!)
It’s also great for rim jobs.
The Classic
Just lie back and take it.
Plus, it “invites in a feeling of domination and submission, which can be incredibly erotic.”
Doggy Style
Oral sex is great on all fours.
(Or both!)
Pro-tip: While you or your partner receive, try wearing a butt plug to maximize your pleasure!
To protect your knees or theirs, don’t forget the pillow.
Tips and tricks:
Protect your neck.
“First and foremost, be kind to your neck!”
If that happens, change positions.
Explore the rest of their body.
Use toys and props.
A few to consider:
Talk while doing it.
- Communication is key for most things in life, including sex.
Some peopledon’t enjoy oral sex, and that’s OK!)
Show your excitement.
If you like how your partner tastes, let them know!
Or if you enjoy pleasing them, feel free to let a few moans out.
(Here’s ourguide to dirty talkfor some inspo.)
Use your breath.
Increase the intimacy.
(Here are some more ways togive more passionate oral sex.)
Switch up your speed.
Things to keep in mind.
The best way to avoid this scenario is to prioritize safety as a part of your pleasure.
