Gaining more insight into ourselves and our lives has consistently proved to be of value to us.
We go totherapyto better understand why we think the way we think and do the things we do.
We takepersonality assessmentsto determine what sort of jobs we might be suited for or have an inclination toward.
We figure out ourlove languagesso we can communicate how we want to experience love and affection.
Enter: the erotic blueprint.
What is an erotic blueprint?
There are five erotic blueprints: energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter.
The 5 erotic blueprints.
People with this blueprint are aroused by space, anticipation, and teasing.
According to Patterson, energetics are also often hypersensitive, and therefore less touch is more.
“Always ground yourself and breathe deeply during sex,” she recommends.
She also recommends couples try synchronizedbreathworkfor increased intimacy and orgasmic potential.
Sensual
The sensual blueprint is all about the vibes.
“To the sensual, setting the mood is very important,” sex and empowerment coachDomina Dolltells mbg.
“They may enjoy setting up a beautiful space, lighting candles, or putting on music.”
This key in really likes to savor the experience and take in the atmosphere.
They may delight in varioustypes of playthat enhance, tease, or deprive the senses.
They pursue orgasm and pleasure primarily through genital stimulation and penetrative sex.
“They’re often aroused easily and quickly and like tohave sex frequently,” she mentions.
This can create issues if their partner has a different blueprint.
Kinky
Kinky blueprints are titillated by the taboo.
Kinky’s shadow:For a kinky blueprint, their shadow most often takes the form of shame.
Johnson suggests working to unpack any unconscioussexual shameor repression they may have.
Shapeshifter
Shapeshifters get off on all of it.
Their arousal is influenced by a little bit of everything we’ve mentioned.
They crave variety and are considered the explorers of the blueprints when it comes to sexuality and kink.
Fresh, new experiences are key in satiating the appetite of the shapeshifter blueprint.
Shapeshifters might want to make a sexual bucket list for themselves as well.
Why knowing your blueprint can benefit your sex life.
We literally havenoblueprint (get it?)
when it comes to sexuality and pleasure, especially one that caters to our specific sexual personality.
How to find your blueprint.
The bottom line.
Erotic blueprints are like your sexual personality pop in.
