Sometimes, you still have more to say after a breakup.

Maybe you evenwant to get back together.

Don’t text your ex impulsively

Think before you text your ex.

Kelly Gonsalves

If you do reach out, be intentional.

That means you probably shouldn’t reach out just because you’re lonely, sad, orhorny.

Sometimes it can also be helpful to let your ex know the ways they’ve hurt you.

Do be upfront

Be clear about what you want when you contact them.

Be as direct and transparent as possible.

Want to meet for coffee?"

Either way, don’t string them along.

Be clear about exactly why you’re reaching out so your ex isn’t left wondering.

If they seem genuinely happy with someone else, let them be happy.

Don’t continue to contact them if they don’t respond.