Some theories can simply be chalked up to fads (like the bemoaned helicopter parenting).
Others have scientific research to back them uplike the four main parenting styles.
Thefour main parenting stylescreate a framework for how we evaluate and describe child-rearing decisions.
Or cultural norms can play a role in how these parenting styles are exhibited.
What we’re saying here is that while these may be distinct and differing styles, there is nuance.
Here, we break it down.
What is permissive parenting?
Permissive parenting is accommodating parenting (sometimes even referred to as indulgent parenting).
“These are like your ‘best friend’ parents.”
How does it compare to the other parenting styles?
Remember: Ideally, parents will find a balance between sensitivity and expectations.
How to change permissive parenting habits.
Changing habits is really just about course-correcting, so you implement more structure and clear expectations for your kids.
Essentially, you are creatingboundarieswithin the family unit.
“Secure boundaries set by the parent, not negotiated by the child, reduce anxiety.
Predictability reduces uncertainty, and that reduces anxiety,” notes author and therapistKrissy Pozatek, MSW.
“Parents should not value a child’s self-expression over a child’s sense of security.
I am not asking you to do something that I wouldn’t do myself.
When people grow up and become part of a relationshipbe it partner or roommateyou think of others.
You don’t always just take care of yourself.
Chores teach that.”
The takeaway.
Parenting choices fall on a complex framework between four unique styles.
Permissive parenting is when parents have low expectations yet are highly attentive to their kids.
While these parents are very sensitive to their kids, the lack of structure may have unintended consequences.
