You might’ve heard someone call another person in their lifeperhaps even youa “kindred spirit.”
It’s a sweet term to convey affection for somebody, but what does it actually mean?
What are kindred spirits?
“The connection is inimitable and often defies verbal description.”
People who share common interests, values, or worldviews might be described as kindred spirits.
It could be a family member you have a deep friendship with.
Or it could be a stranger you meet at an event and instantly feel drawn to, says Manly.
Signs of a kindred spirit:
1.
You feel at peace around them.
You have an unusual amount in common.
You and your kindred spirits will likely think alike, act alike, and somehow justfeelalike.
“Kindred spirits often share the same quirks, values, and sense of humor.
Kindred spirits tend to get each other in ways that others simply do not.”
You learn about yourself through them.
You tend to see things the same way.
In addition to sharing interests, you and your kindred spirits will likely see a lot of things similarly.
“You might recognize a similarity in your viewpoints and outlook on life.”
5. you’re able to sometimes tell what they’re thinking or feeling.
“Sometimes it feels telepathic,” says Sauvage.
You feel like you know them right away.
You might have a “feeling of ‘I know you!’
They’re a great support system.
“Any kindred spirit will be a wonderfulsupport systemin your life.
it’s possible for you to count on them.
Kindred spirits versus soul mates.
(Here’s more about thedifferent types of soul mates.)
“Soul mates are more intertwined in your life and day-to-day,” Zuckerman adds.
“Soul mates tend to have more of a direct and ongoing influence in your life.”
Kindred spirit connections, on the other hand, can be fleetingand that’s sometimes what makes them special.
Do kindred spirits fall in love?
“Kindred spirits are more like co-conspirators,” says Sauvage.
“They seem to just show up.