Certain dreams seem to be somewhat universal.

Some common themes includesnakes,spiders, and, of course, sex.

Not only are sex dreams quite common, but they can also carry valuable information.

Sarah Regan

Why do we have sex dreams?

And not only that, but specifics mattereven the random things.

As she explains, you obviously already know if you want to sleep with this person in real life.

In this case, Loewenberg suggests looking at what stands out about the dream character.

“Maybe they’re very muscular, for example,” she says.

“You want more authority, you want to be in charge and make firmer decisions.

“Where were you?

Was there any sort of conversation between you, or some other specific element in the dream?

Sex dreams about a celebrity

We project a lot onto celebrities.

“Remember, connection is the name of the game.

Having public sex in a dream, then, could represent a preoccupation with status or recognition.

“Any mouth-related dream will almost always be connected to how you’ve been communicating lately in real life.

And spoiler, she adds, it’s the giver that needs to speak up.

Masturbation dreams

Masturbation dreams can relate to a few different things.

“It could be simply telling you that you oughta focus on one thing right now.

In that case, she says, you oughta pick a direction and go with it.

you get interrupted or the person in the dream walks away).

And there’s no discrimination among genderspeople of all genders report sex dreams and nocturnal emissions.

andinternal factors(such as stress, anxiety, thoughts about the day, etc.).

Can you stop having sex dreams?

Dreaming about sex isn’t typically someone’s worst nightmare.

“Start being a boss in your own life.

Start taking charge, and the dream will stop.”

Loewenberg notes, as well as what it is you admire or respect about them.

From there, it’s possible for you to start to embody whatever that quality or trait is.

In fact, they usually don’t.