It’s common to hear stories of people who claim to have experienced “love at first sight.”
But can you really fall in love with someone you’ve just met?
And do those feelings really lead to a happy, healthy relationship?
Is love at first sight real?
Broken down by gender, 41% of men and 29% of women said they’ve experienced it.
“If you see someone and never speak a word to them, do you truly feel love?
Not if you define love as deep caring, understanding, support, and affection,” Henry says.
It’s possible to sense that those feelings will remain regardless of what unfolds beyond their first encounter."
The science of love at first sight.
The main factor that predicted falling in love at first sight with a stranger?
“The idea that ‘love conquers all’ is quite misleading,” she says.
Also: Love and dating are supposed to be fun!
So lean in and enjoy the rush.
double-check you’re actually ready for a relationship.
Check in with yourself to double-check you’re mentally and emotionally ready for a romantic relationship, says Henry.
And ensure the object of your affection is on the same page!
Notice if this is a trend.
Set boundaries.
As you explore your connection with this person, Cullins recommends maintaining boundaries.
Remember: You just met them!
You have afeelingabout who they are, but you don’t actuallyknowthem.
What if the feelings aren’t there?
The popularity of the concept of love at first sight can sometimes create unrealistic expectations, Cullins says.