“Allow yourself to be vulnerable and share your heart,” she recommends.
Really lean into your emotionsthat’s what’s going to really make your love letter sing.
Pet names and inside jokes work great.
Examples:
Say why you’re writing the letter
Is it an anniversary or another special occasion?
Did your partner come through for you in a big way and you want to show appreciation?
Have you just been feeling a lot of love for your partner and wanting to show your affection?
Whatever it is, say why you are writing the letter to give your letter some context.
The point is to make it meaningful.
This section shouldn’t be that long since you’ve put the meat of the letter into the body.
However, there is no way to know how they will respond if you don’t open yourself up.
This can still be a very therapeutic process for you!
Without going over the top, describe the little things that make this person special to you.
Pay attention to the details
Don’t be too general in your letter.
Don’t just say that you like them or that they caught your interest.
Tell them why you like them and how they make you feel.
If you’re feeling stuck, find inspiration.
Look for examples of love letters that say things similar to what you want to say.
Look at the great poets and writers and find inspiration in their words.
you might even quote them if it feels appropriate.
Be clear about your intentions
see to it they know why you’re writing this letter.
Are you just wanting to make them feel good?
Are you telling them how you feel because you’re hoping they might feel the same way?
Tapping into your five senses can help you get into the right head space.
If you don’t like what you’ve written, don’t settle.
At the same time, don’t put too much pressure on yourself.
Which of these ways does this person enjoy receiving love?
This is where you’re able to get really creative and have some fun with it.
But that’s what makes letter writing so special.
Lover letters are one of the greatest exemplars of true romance.
