Although they might seem like polar opposite to some of us, rough sex and tantra actually go hand-in-hand.
TheKama Sutrahas whole chapters on rough sex, actually.
Scratching, spanking, and biting during sex can all be part of deeply connectivetantric sex.
The Boss), they like to be more submissive and let her partner take control in the bedroom.
This is perfectly normal.
Here are a few rough sex techniques to try that are totally aligned with tantra.
One line reads, “The nails are used for scratching and scraping for increase excitation.
In tantra, we use our nails in a more gentle wayusing feather-light touch.
So, you’ll more lightly touch your partner or yourself to awaken your senses.
The other tantric principle it’s important to hold on to is consciousness.
Even when your sex is rough, you should approach it with awe, respect, and total presence.
TheKama Sutraalso clarifies that biting can be done on almost any body part.
My teachings on both the nipple-gasm and tantric breast massage include nipple-pinching as a technique for reaching orgasm.
(Here’s my full guide toorgasms from nipple play.)
To roughen it up theKama Sutraway, try nibbling or biting instead of pinching.
Be very careful to go slowly here.
Let your partner know when it’s too much.
There’s a very fine line between pleasure and pain.
That’s the moment someone can actually break through to the most intense orgasm ever.
Spanking
The “Blows and Sighs” chapter of theKama Sutradescribes multiple ways of spanking.
When you spank or smack, it sends that chi up the spine from the root chakra.
This is another way to havefull-body orgasms.
Precautions for engaging in rough sex.
Firstly, check in with yourself to double-check that you want rough sex for the right reasons.
Beware of abusive behavior masked as rough sex.
She couldn’t feel pleasure without feeling shame because of past sexual trauma.
Rough sex won’t fix that.
you better get back in touch with your body before you explore different kinds of sex.
