Lubrication is key to great sex, making this item a must-have for any nightstand or bathroom drawer.
It’s not magic in a bottle, but some might say it’s pretty close.
Importantly, using lube doesn’t mean your body isn’t functioning as it should.
Before you go shopping for your first or latest tube of lube, read this list.
Water-based lubes
The most universal of all the lubricant types, water-based lube is condom- and sex-toy-safe.
If you bring toys into the mix, she recommends a water-based pairing.
It’s not compatible with sex toys unless they’re glass or metal.
Plus, Stewart says oil degrades latex, polyurethane, and polyisoprene condoms (includingnon-latex condoms).
Hybrids
Hybrid lubrication combines either water and silicone or water and oil in different percentages.
For example, hybrids tend to be creamier and less sticky.
While some oil hybrids are condom-safe, always double-check the product to be sure.
“Unfortunately, though, natural lubes often lack in the longevity department,” she warns.
You’ll likely have to reapply frequently and maybe even use more than you think you need.
How much should you use?
Squirt a dab into your handsomething like the size of a dimeand spread it on the desired area.
Ways to use lube
There’s more to lube than you think.
“Lube is necessary for optimal sex toy performance,” says Rowntree.
Reapply as often as you need.
“Lube is also an important addition to your manual masturbation repertoire.”
Bust out your favorite lube, and have fun exploring the limits of your body.
If you’re able to, rub and stroke their penis at the same time.
Sex-free hacks
Lube is actually pretty dang handy outside of being the Swiss Army knife of sex.
Explore anal with ease
Anal explorationrequireslube.
According to Rowntree, there’s no way around it.
And that includes non-penetrative anal play like rimming, too.
Depending on the product, she says some lubes can desensitize penises and delay ejaculation.
The added lubrication is handy when it’s possible for you to’t naturally produce more spit.
It’ll just wash away, says Rowntree.
For “optimal aquatic intimacy,” Rowntree recommends a silicone-based lube.
Be a tease
Building anticipation through teasing is a top-tier way to make foreplay even more sheet-gripping.
Don’t penetratejust feign like you will and watch your partner beg you for more.
Turn your boobs into a Slip ‘N Slide
Are you familiar with breast sex?
It’s likely you know this activity under a different name, but the pleasure is all the same.
Compatibility
In general, not all lubes are created equal.
Rowntree advises always reading the product packaging and considering your unique needs before making a purchase.
If you’re concerned about allergies, Barra recommends silicone-based lube as your best option.
Risk of infections
“Oil-based lubes can cause yeast to flourish,” says Rowntree.
“You might want to limit your usage of oil lubricants to contexts where there’s no penetration.”
Necessary for anal play
Rowntree also stresses the importance of using lubrication during penetrative anal play.
Rowntree considers it the “ultimate sex-cessory,” and says your goody drawer isn’t whole without it.
With this limited thinking, you’re free to easily miss out onmuch stronger orgasms.
