Being on a diet is their norm, and theyre convinced the next one will finally bring them contentedness.

Living your life obsessed with weight and food is exhausting.

Developing a healthy relationship to food and your body is a complex process, and it doesnt occur overnight.

Melainie Rogers, M.A., CEDRD

But here are the four main elements Ive found most people need for start healing:

1.

Self-love

Self-compassion isnt about believing youre perfect or loving every inch of your body.

Its about treating yourself as the imperfect human being that you are.

Roxanna Namavar, D.O.

This is a long process and requires you to take time deepening your connection to yourself.

Finding or creating purposeshifts the pressure away from our bodies as the determinant of our self-worth.

Suddenly, those extra pounds or cellulite lose their power over our mood.

So if youre food- and weight-obsessed, it could be a sign that youre seeking meaning.

Acceptance of your happy, sustainable weight.

This is your sustainable weight.