Remove all distractions and responsibilities, including work, children, TV, and any daily errands.
Pay attention to her needs
Sure,orgasmsfeel good.
For some women, orgasm alone is empty when there’s no deeper connection or intention embedded within it.
Instead, try touching her whole body with long, firm strokes to get her blood moving.
A stiff and non-responsive lover is hard to get any kind of ignition happening with.
Try experimenting with speed or pressure.
Light feathery touch can feel nice sometimes but annoying at others.
Invite her feedback to help navigate her body.
Then follow her cues.
Start slowly, then build up.
Use a qualityvaginal lubricant, as dry fingers on genitals don’t feel great.
(Yes, most vagina owners need lube!
Ask her how she likes to be touched, or even ask her to show you.
If you are both interested in helping her orgasm, focus onstimulating her clitoris.
Using a powerful externalvibratoron her clitoris can help this process.
Many women enjoy this slower, more holistic approach.
Even if tantra isn’t your thing, prioritize creating anemotional connection during sex.
