How do you start loving yourself from an authentic place?
When you start to view masturbation as a form of self-care, you might enhance your pleasure exponentially.
Here’s how to make masturbation feel better by getting more intentional with your techniques.
Book time with yourself.
Create a space and a context that make you feel comfortable and excited.
Set up aromantic bedroom environmentjust for yourself.
What made the physical environment perfect for your pleasure?
Dark or natural daylight?
Get yourself in the mood.
Getting in the mood, even for solo play, is sometimes helped with relaxing preparations.
Schedule a massage and build in a half hour for yourself after youre home and relaxed.
Take a hot shower with essential oils or a bubble bath with favorite sexy music.
Explore different ways of turning yourself on.
Use erotica, daydream, watch porn, or play music that puts you in the mood.
Theres no right or wrong here, just explore different avenues.
Not sure where to start?
Here’show to figure out what turns you on.
Wear something that makes you feel sexy.
Does lingerie turn you on?
Buy yourself a new toy.
Explore the difference between manual stimulation and using gadgets.
The experiences can be totally disparate, and you may discover something new about your body.
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Added lubrication generally makes insertion and sensation more pleasurable, even during solo masturbation.
Avoid silicone-based lubricants if you’re using a silicone toy, as it can break down the material.
If you have a silicone toy, use oil- or water-based lube instead.
Don’t worry about the orgasms.
There is no prize for most orgasms reached.
Regardless of climax, you will enjoy the benefits of hormones, self-love, and relaxation.
Tantric sexis a sexual practice that’s all about slow, intentional, high-intensity pleasure.
Remember that masturbation is a form of self-care.
The right mindset can make a big difference in how much you’re able to enjoy masturbation.
So embrace your solo sex practice for the healthy habit it is.
With frequent masturbation youre relaxing your brain and therefore your body, which canimprove digestion and balance your hormones.
(Side note: I call my body she rather than it."
I feel like it contributes to a healthier, closer relationship.
Use the pronouns that jive with you!)
Here’s to discovering new fantasies, thresholds for pleasure, and enhanced well-being.
