Common long-distance relationship challenges
Can distance make the heart grow fonder?
Sure, but probably not without a little hardship.
Lastly, long-distance relationships tend to be tested when goals for the future change for either partner.
“This is also true for temporary changes, like being sick or having big things to celebrate.”
But what relationship lacks challenges?
Tips for making long-distance relationships work
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“Being in a relationship is a choice,” Lucero says.
Pay attention to the strength of your emotional connection with your partner, Casimiro advises.
You could also try writing agratitude listof things you enjoy about your partner and your relationship.
It may come in handy when times get tough.
Communication is everything
It always comes down to communication.
What does clear and honest communication look like?
Keep in mind that the ideal amount of communication differs for every relationship.
Set clear boundaries early on
Long-distance relationships, in particular, benefit from a bit of planning.
And these aren’t the kinds of conversations you only have oncethey should continue throughout your relationship.
“Being clear about boundaries and expectations in the relationship is essential for long-distance couples,” Lucero says.
Schedule regular virtual dates to create moments of bonding while apart.
Book a plane ticket
Virtual dates are great and all, but nothing beats seeing your partner in person.
So much joy can be derived from feelings of anticipation.
Againthere is no “right” number of times to visit each other.
It all depends on what works for your relationship.
“By maintaining trust and transparency, it can build security in the relationship,” Casimiro says.
Know that there are benefits
Long-distance works greatand is even preferablefor some people.
“When I first started my therapy internship, my husband was deployed in Saudi Arabia.
It worked for us, and it works for many other couples as well,” Lucero says.
Discuss your shared goals for the future
How long will this distance last?
Where do you see us as a couple in five years?
What do you want to do with your lifeand how do I fit into that?
Challenges arise in long-distance relationships when life goals change, according to Lucero.
“There can also be uncertainty about the future in long-distance relationships,” Casimiro says.
Resources for people in long-distance relationships
Who says you could’t have fun in a long-distance relationship?
Maintaining a healthy long-distance relationship takes effort,communication, and commitment.
