No one likes an awkward pause in the middle of a conversation.
Getting the conversation started.
“Are you motivated by pure curiosity?
A desire to get to know someone better?
A desire to build a stronger friendship?
Do you have a specific goal in mind […] like a job interview?”
It fosters a genuine connection."
Tips to keep things going:
Get curious.
attempt to display genuine curiosity in the person you’re talking with.
As Munoz adds, “Allow another person to experience your curiosity and interest in them.
Let go of your agenda.”
Find common ground.
One of the quickest ways to start bonding with someone new is by finding common ground.
If you want to avoid potential disagreements, you may wish to avoid such subjects.
double-check it’s a good time to talk.
Listen intently.
Really show you’re engaged and interested in what this person has to say.
Not only will this make them feel good, butactive listeningcan help strengthen all your relationships.
you’re free to even practice with friends to improve your listening skills.
Just pay attention to what the person is saying.
Ask open-ended questions.
Give people a chance to answer open-ended questions rather than giving straight yeses or nos.
This is also another way of showing curiosity.
Ask open-ended questions."
There’s a reason it always comes up!
Hobbies and interests
Who doesn’t love to talk about what they’re passionate about?
People are usually happy to share the things that bring them joy.
Try practicing with people you’re close with to strengthen your conversational skills.
And when in doubt, a compliment never hurts.
