What is the prostate?
The prostate’s main evolutionary task is to make some of the fluid in semen.
But the prostate isn’t just a body part offunction; it’s a body part ofpleasure, too.
How a prostate orgasm works.
As you might guess, a prostate orgasm is anorgasmic responseto prostate stimulation.
Yes, prostate stimulation can feelthatgood.
As it goes, prostate play can be enjoyable for anyone with a prostate.
It also allows those who have a longer refractory period to play around withmultiple orgasms.
Many prostate owners say that prostate orgasms feelmore full-bodiedcompared to penile orgasms, according to him.
An orgasm that overtakes you head-to-head-to-toe?
We’re here for it.
Tips & techniques to have a prostate orgasm.
Want to explore the hidden pleasure potential of your ownor your partner’sprostate?
Ahead, a few tips and tricks to keep in mind:
Take the pressure off.
The best way to cock-block an orgasm?
By putting pressure on yourself to have one.
The prostate isn’t the only nerve-rich portion of the anus, he says.
The entrance of the canal is reported to have as many nerves as the head of a penis.
Start with a finger.
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Then, when you’re ready, grab some lube and go for it.
“Start with a single finger,” she says.
All bodies are different, she says, so spend some time testing out different types of touch.
Pro-tip: Pre-play,give yourself a little manicure.
have a go at stimulate the area externally.
Tried receptive anal penetration and didn’t enjoy it?
Can’t mentally get over the potential of poo?
Simply looking for yet another way to tease this hot spot?
Try stimulating the prostate indirectly via external stimulation.
Level up with prostate toys.
Between prostate massagers, anal beads, dildos, and butt plugs, the anal-safe toy market is stacked.
But if you’re going to invest in a prostate toy, Zane recommends making it a prostate massager.
Even better are vibrating prostate massagers.
“Focus on taking big, deep, diaphragmatic belly breaths while you play.
This will help you relax,” he says.
Breathing may have the power toextend your orgasm, too.
3 positions to try for prostate stimulation.
If you’re the person receiving anal penetration, lie on your back.
Modified doggy
This option has you lie flat on your belly.
Spooning
Thespooning sex positionis a great option for couples exploring anal intercourse and pegging.
Here, the partner receiving prostate stimulation takes the little spoon position while the giving partner gets in back.
“While your partner stimulates your prostate, you’re able to (and should!)
stimulate your penis at the same time,” suggests Zane.
Toys to help.
The world of prostate toys is as vast and expansive as, well, the anus of someone horny.
Ahead, three categories ofsex toysthat work well for prostate play.
Butt plugs
Butt plugs do exactly what it sounds like they’ll do: plug your butt.
TheFun Factory Duke($99) is also curved perfectly for prostate stimulation.
Plus, it vibrates!
A third option that comes recommended by Stewart is theSVAKOM Vick Neo($99).
They’re also a good pick for someone who, generally, enjoys the sensation of anal fullness.
Dildos can be used via hand during solo or partnered play.
Your size preferences should dictate the dildo you invest in.
Top dildo manufacturers includeFun Factory,New York Sex Toy Collective, andAvant.
The takeaway.
Or, if you have a partner (or two!)
(Just don’t forget that flared base!)
As with any new key in of sexual play, remember that pleasure is more important than orgasm.
So, if it stops feeling good, stop.
Or, pause and parse out with your partner what you need for it to feel better.
