Desire is one of the most enjoyable human experiences there is:wanting something and anticipating getting it.
Desire is the energy that surges us into evolution.
So what are the qualities that inspire this delicious feeling of desire between two people?
Below are four qualities that Esther mentioned as being paramount in creating desire in relationships.
Playful energy is light, silly, flowing and uplifting.
In a world where we get bogged-down by responsibility of all sorts, playful energy can be the antidote.
When we experience playfulness with another person, we want more.Voila!Desire is created.
But this seems crazy!
What’s the point of life if we’re not enjoying ourselves?!
So, let playfulness take the stage in your relationship and you’ll absolutely reignite the spark.
We’re all familiar with the fantasy-delusion that another person is supposed to “complete you.”
Dependency leads to neediness, and we all know what that does to the spark of passion.
By doing so, you are sparking the flames of passion in your relationship.
Novelty
Ever notice how you love having sex on vacation?
Traveling induces the feeling of newness into our lives, and this a huge aphrodisiac.
So, you might be wondering, how do you create noveltyin an ongoing, long-term relationship?
It’s actually easier than you think.
Here’s the thing you’realwaysgrowing.
You are an expanding being.
You’re in a constant state of evolution.
you areconstantly becoming new.
This not only creates an interesting life for you, but it creates excitement in your relationship, too.
Relationships that value and support the growth of each individual thrive.
When we grow, we become new and exciting, both to ourselves and to each other.
Presence & engagement
Schedules while necessary smolder desire.
Because in the midst of day-to-day life, we turn on autopilot and turn off life force.
Needless to say, autopilot isn’t sexy.
We do it as a preservation mechanism, but it backfires.
When we shut off, the juice of life shuts off, too.
So, what’s the solution?
It turns us on!
Doing so will be sure to reignite your flame.
