Here’s what to know about throuples, including how to make them work, according to relationship experts.
What is a throuple?
(We’ll use “throuple” and “triad” interchangeably throughout this article.)
All three terms are subsets under the umbrella of ethical nonmonogamy.
An open relationship is a relationship in which a romantically bonded couple (or throuple!)
decides to have sex with people outside of their relationshipusually without forming long-lasting emotional bonds or commitment.
(Here’show to ask your partner for an open relationship, if that’s sparking some curiosity.)
And as Schneider adds, this will look different for every triad.
“There are no specific ‘rules’ that all triads follow,” she says.
Here’s ahelpful directoryyou can use to find a therapist who specializes in polyamorous relationships.
Increased intimacy
Clear and direct communication is a huge part of all ENM relationships.
This results in increased emotional intimacy between all parties.
Not only that but increased emotional intimacy tends to result in greater sexual intimacy as well.
And for folks in triads, having a third person in the bedroom can keep things fun and exciting.