If the answer is yes, you could be into exhibitionism.
Here, we explore and ultimately give you a better understanding of what it means to be an exhibitionist.
What is exhibitionism?
Signs you might be into it:
You fantasize about being watched.
An early memory of your sexual self involves being observed.
You like the idea of getting into burlesque, stripping, or other sexy forms of culture.
“This is show-offy but also has the value for some of giving their exhibitionism a context.
You enjoy putting on a show for your partner.
An exhibitionist will also find this very personally arousing,” she explains.
You dress sexy so you can pull attention.
This isn’t gender-specific, Queen adds.
That doesn’t mean they’re all turned on by it!
And it doesn’t mean all other gender presentations have to sit this one out.
You love bringing your partner with you while shopping for lingerie.
A classic example of an exhibitionist and a voyeurist together," says Graveris.
Exhibitionism vs. voyeurism.
Exhibitionism and voyeurism actually go hand-in-hand, Vrangalova says.
“Exhibitionism and voyeurism are like two sides of a coin.
Like with exhibitionism, consent is key to voyeurism and making the two kinks function well together.
“Talk about what sex would be like if others were watching.
Discuss different scenarios andwhat would be most arousing,” she says.
Discuss whether that is something you both want to do, or if the fantasy is enough.”
Add sexy garments or a striptease element to removing your clothes.
Keep the lights on and put on a show.
Queens recommends keeping the lights on, getting on top, and putting on a show.
“Be showy, ask your partner to look at you, move, be a tease.
Put on an erotic show for your partner; tease, masturbate, etc.,” she says.
Try mutual masturbation.
“I love suggesting that both partners masturbate and watch at the same time,” she says.
“Just get on either end of the bed and ensure the lights aren’t too dim.”
Try a sex party or group sex scenario.
“Explore a sex party or swingers gathering.
The bottom line.
The truth is, you don’t have to do anything you’re not comfortable with.
That doesn’t mean you’re not an exhibitionist at heart,” says Stray Conger.
