No need to frethere, the secret to finding true love.

(Hint: You may want to start holding yourself accountable.)

It all starts from within.

Jason Wachob

“There’s a big difference between trying to get love and actually sharing love.

We can’t share love if we don’t have love to share,” she tells me.

What she means is love is sort of like a transaction.

mindbodygreen Podcast Guest Margaret Paul

“And that’s what happens on the inner level,” Paul adds.

That’s why you may attract the “wrong people.”

According to Paul, you attract what you reflect.

Paul explains further: “If people were really available, they wouldn’t be attracted to unavailable people.

They’d be attracted to available people.

If you’re unavailable, you’ve got to do your inner work to become available.

Think of it this way: You truly get what you put out into the world.

“And that’s the ‘wrong people.’

What does that inner work look like?

We admit, it’s easier said than done.

That’s the beginning step to really be present within yourself,” she explains.

The rest, as one would say, is history.