“I don’t care if I never have sex again.”
How lack of connection can affect your sex drive.
The neediness problem.
What’s going is that their husband is powerful in the work arena but self-abandoningand thusneedyin the emotional arena.
He wants sex to relax and feel good about himself rather than to connect with his wife.
This dynamic invariably leads to his wife feeling used by him rather than loved.
There is nothing erotic about a needy person.
Having sex to connectnot out of neediness.
This ishow to emotionally connect with your partner.
If one partner has a sexual agenda, the interaction won’t feel loving and genuine.
Sexuality will often emerge naturally from their authentic emotional intimacy.
