Which one are you?
And I think they’re missing out.
It is a miracle that you exist.
You have had an immeasurable impact on those around you.
How is thatnotworthy of celebration?
With each passing birthday, it becomes clear: Life moves so quickly.
Without slowing down at key moments (like the day you were born!
), we can so easily miss it and then wonder where it all went.
Whether this happens on your birthday or near it, book some time to be only with you.
Go for a walk, sit at a lovely cafe, and bring your journal.
Reflect on where you are in your life right now and where you’d like to go.
Do something you love to dowindow shop, take a favorite fitness class, meander through a gallery.
Make it a specialdate with yourself.
Set some fun, juicy goals for the coming year.
Writing it down is how we begin to bring it to life.
Make a monthly birthday date.
Use that time to reconnect to your dreams and desires and plan your next set of actions toward them.
Buy yourself a special gift.
Gifting yourself something special is a way of celebrating yourself rather than waiting for that validation from someone else.
It does not need to be something expensive or budget-breaking, just something that feels good to you.
I personally love to buy myself a piece of jewelry or a new dress.
Read an inspiring book.
What books might support you at this point in your journey?
I like to visit a bookstore (extra points if it’s local and independent!)
as part of the date with myself.
As a single mom, browsing a bookstore without someone tugging at my sleeve is extreme luxury!
Spend time with people who inspire you.
Say thank you.
Be sure to tell them how they’ve made a difference in your life.
Spend time in nature.
That is why we feel a sense of calm and oneness when we spend time in it.
Your birthday is the perfect time to connect to your true nature, your true essence.
Being in nature also reminds us of the natural cycle of all living things (including ourselves!
Write yourself a letter from your future self.
In my group programs I lead women through avisualization exercisewhere they receive a visit from their future selves.
Essentially, your future self wants to tell you, “You’ve got this!”
What adventures has she gone on, what experiences has she had, how has she grown?
Let your future self be your inspiration and muse.
I want to challenge you to reclaim your birthday for yourself.
Celebrate the day you began your unique adventure.
Celebrate how far you’ve come.
And most importantly, celebrate where you are headedbecause the best is yet to come.
