Narcissists are dangerous romantic partners, and this shows up just as much in the bedroom as outside it.

Manipulation, detachment, and even violent sexual behavior is common among a specific subgroup known as sexual narcissists.

Here’s what you gotta know about sexual narcissists and how to spot them.

Suzannah Weiss

In an ongoing relationship, physically leaving the house or room after sex is more common.

“Sexual narcissists will often be very charming and flattering until they get what they want.

Then they will go back to ignoring and neglecting their partners,” he says.

Kristina Hallett, Ph.D., ABPP

They behave violently during sex

Sexual narcissism has been linked with sexual abuse and aggression.

They’re serial cheaters

Sexual narcissists' compulsions can also includeserial infidelity.

A2014 study4in theArchives of Sexual Behaviorfound sexual narcissists are more likely to cheat in marriage.

They will feel as if the experience was devoid of emotional connection."

Some sexual narcissists will even gaslight you into believing you wanted sex that you weremanipulatedinto, says Santan.

But narcissists of all varieties, not just sexual narcissists, are prone to abusive sexual behavior.