But trust issues can also cause problems in nonromantic relationships, like with family and friends.
What are trust issues?
“The underbelly of this is often ‘I’m scared I can’t be myself with you.
I’m scared that you’re not gonna accept me for who I am.
Or I’m scared you won’t let me in,'” Moran says.
“Think of [the reactivity] as what is seen above the waterline,” Moran notes.
“It informs who they are, and that impacts the partner,” he adds.
Reluctance to open up
Trust issues can make it difficult forsomeone to open up.
Trust issues develop as a result of our past or present experiences.
This is the basis ofattachment theory.
“We all have vulnerabilities from childhood because the human experience if flawed,” Moran adds.
And that sticks with us, sometimes forming what’s known as aninsecure attachment style.
As such,infidelityis a common cause of trust issues.
“Everyone makes mistakes,” Beurkens says, “and everyone will let you down at some point.
That doesn’t mean they can’t be trusted.”
Trust is a huge factor in the foundation of every relationship, romantic or not.
When we can’ttrustthose closest to us, it can feel incredibly isolating and lonely.
But it is possible to overcome trust issues so your relationships with those you love can flourish.
