Want to find better matchesandfeel more empowered in the process?
Plus, find out whatgreen flags to look foron dating apps.
What is a red flag?
Just keep in mind, not every red flag has to be adeal breaker.
TherapistLaTonya Washington, LICSW, adds that some red flags are just an indication that something needs further examination.
Plus, not every red flag is universal.
One person’s warning sign could be someone else’s green light.
Identifying red flags requires self-awareness and self-respect.
“It’s a journey of understanding your own boundaries, needs, and values,” Chan says.
That’s why Washington says avoiding this can be a red flag.
“Sometimes people refuse to video chat due to not looking like their actual pictures,” she says.
Love bombing or rushing intimacy
You’ve likely heard this term, butwhat exactly is love bombing?
That in mind, Chan stresses the importance of boundaries.
If someone is pressuring you, it indicates a lack of respect for your personal comfort zone.
Of course, Jain notes that you want to ensure you’re giving that consistency back.
You may need to verbalize the level of communication you want.
Washington says this builds a foundation of trust while fostering authenticity.
Being supportive and encouraging
Emotional maturity is amajorgreen flag.
On the flip side, do they show empathy for you during challenging times?
If so, this can build a nurturing connection.
Showing curiousity
Pay attention to someone who asks questions and listens.
“That demonstrates emotional availability and the intent to form an emotional bond,” says Chan.
FAQ:
How can you tell if someone is real online dating?
Jain and Washington both recommend hopping on a video call with someone before meeting in real life.
Is early sexting a red flag?
According to Chan, sexting could be a red flag depending upon what you’re looking for.
What are red flags on a first date?
Chan says to look out for disrespectful behavior.
How do they treat other people, such as the service staff?
How do they talk about previous dates or relationships?
How they speak about past relationships could signify that they’re still emotionally charged about their ex.
In turn, you’ll end up on dates with people who are a better match for you.
