Sacredness is felt experience.
It’s a knowing deep within, a knowing of who you really are.
And so, the desire for a sacred relationship is born.
Below are four truths about a sacred relationship that will guide you to the union we’re all seeking.
These truths will point you back to who you really are…
They’ll point you back to the essence of sacredness itself.
A sacred relationship is not what you think it is.
Sacredness is not a concept, which means it has very little to do with the analytical mind.
That’s because the mind operates in dualityfrom the perception of separation.
Sacredness, still exists beyond separation.
Beyond the mind…beyond rational thinking.
All concepts related to sacred relationships are just that: concepts.
It misses the whole point.
It doesn’t get more sacred than that!
Nothing will take the sacredness out of a relationship faster than definitions and concepts.
They send you into an ego state, blinding you from the divinity of the present moment.
Sacredness can only be found when we step out of the theoretical and into the now.
A sacred relationship is not always what you want.
We can sometimes confuse “spiritual” or “sacred” with “exactly what I want.”
Of course we want it to be exactly what we want.
But that’s not what sacredness is…
Sacredness is the experience of no division.
No resistance to what is.
The peace that surpasses all understanding appears when we stop fighting against what is.
In a sacred relationship “being with what is” is something you get to practice.
This means dropping your resistance to whatever comes up in the relationship.
You don’t have to like it and you don’t have to be on board with it.
This leads you to understanding yourself in a deeper way.
Remember that sacredness in a relationship doesn’t come from feeling good.
It comes from the fact that a relationship is a reflection of you.
A sacred relationship reflects your own embodiment of sacredness.
We see sacredness when we’re embodying sacredness.
We see wholeness, love, fulfillment, and completion when we’re embodying these qualities ourselves.
And we see separation (limitation, competition, and contempt) when we’re embodying separation.
You see through the eyes of what you are.
As your love grows, so will the love that appears in your life.
It’s a very simple equation.
All relationships are sacred.
OK, we’ve all heard this spiritual jargon beforeall relationships are sacred.
But as I said in the first point, this isn’t a concept or theory.
It’s a truth we can understand using our deeper knowing.
Here’s what it means:
Everything in existence is an expressiona dance, a movementof Life itself.
This is the same as saying everything is an expression of Source (of God, of Spirit).
We all come from the same Source of energy.
This Sourceor ushappens to express itself in a lot of different ways.
All ways, in fact.
Present, checked out.
All are expressions of the same Source, each doing its own unique dance.
A mistake we can make when it comes to sacredness is to think it only ever feels good.
But this isn’t the case.
But that doesn’t make them more sacred.
They’re all sacred.
They’re all a reflection of you.
A relationship is a unique opportunity to see yourself through a person you love.
