There’s a lot of talk aboutmanifestingthese days how to use your mindset to create the life you want.

You get to be, do and have anything you want.

The trick is, you have tobelieveit can happen.

Shelly Bullard, MFT

When you do, the rest will fall into place.

Commit to the goal.

When you stay committed to a goal, you’re very likely to achieve it.

But not committing to love is the exact thing that is keeping it from happening.

Any achievement starts with a commitment.

Right now, commit yourself to finding love, and you’re halfway there.

Ask yourself what you want in a partner.

To manifest what you want, you must firstknowwhat you want.

So, what qualities do you desire in a partner?

Someone who is kind, loving and adores you?

Someone who wants to make a difference in the world?

Someone who believes in you?

Be the qualities that you’re seeking in someone else.

This step is crucial;we can only manifest qualities that we also possess.

In fact, we manifest what we are.

If you want a loving partner, then you have tobea loving person in the world.

If you want a partner who is driven, you have to have drive yourself!

If not, you have a little work to do.

For example, you want someone who thinks your beautifulbecauseyou don’t believe you’re beautiful.

Or you want someone who offers you security,becauseyou don’t feel secure yourself.

This will never work.

Instead of trying to fill what’s missing in your life with another person,bethe things you desire.

This will speed up the process of finding therightperson.

Feel the love you want in a relationship before the relationship exists.

This step is the most difficult for people you have tofeelthe results before they arrive.

This simply means that you have tofeel fabulousnow,if you want to manifest a relationship that feels fabulous!

You have to feel appreciated and cherishednow, if you want to feel that way with a partner!

Again, this is using a relationship to fill a hole within yourself.

And it never, ever works.

The biggest secret to creating a life you love is that it happens from the inside-out.

And this is how you manifest everything that you desire.

You recognize that it starts within you.

Believe in having the relationship you want.