There aretwo types of sexual desire: spontaneous desire and responsive desire.
Sometimes people with responsive desire think they have a low libido, especially if their partner has spontaneous desire.
It’s not gonna just happen out of the blue.
Talk about closeness, commitment, and special attention.
Yeah, that man gotlaid."
More baths, more sex."
How much each of these types of cues matter will depend on the individual.
Some might be more important for you, while others might be less so.
Couples' therapistAlicia Munoz, LPC, has a guided exercise forfiguring out your ideal sexual context.
