Do you have a hidden kink that you have yet to explore?
What is a kink?
Kinkis anything that veers away from the “normal” or expected sexual path.
Importantly, kink can be experienced through the realm of fantasy, he adds.
One does not have to physically enact their desire so that derive satisfaction from their kink.
These kinks all hinge on power playthat is, the erotic and voluntary exchange of power.
These kinks are all about your relationship to pain.
What do you fantasize about when you masturbate?
This one’s for you if you enjoy the idea of restricting your partner or being restricted.
Maybe it makes you feel safe and taken care of?
Or desired and subjugated?
Or powerful and in control?
Have scissors on hand as well so that ropes can be simply and quickly removed.
Explore by buying hosiery, especially kinds made for having sex (i.e., crotchless), advises Zrenchik.
Voyeurism
A voyeurism kink centers on being turned on by watching other people having sex.
Exhibitionism
Exhibitionismis all about getting turned on by being observed.
Are you usually shy but really let go and come harder when you don’t have to be yourself?
Maybe roleplay is your kink.
This might be your kink if you’re generally verbose and enjoy using words to feel powerful during sex.
you’re able to ease into piss play by starting in the shower and seeing how it feels.
If you like it, it’s possible for you to invest in somewaterproof blanketsand get into it!
This kink may be more likely to appeal to you if you’re also interested in domination or submission.
People who in general find themselves drawn to breasts might find they have a nipple kink.
And remember, nipple play is for everyone, not just women.
(Yes,male nipple playis a thing!)
Humiliation
A humiliation kink is about being put in your place by a partner.
Humiliation kinks can also be enacted through different kinds of power play such as bootlicking or facials.
It’s all about the meaning that the people ascribe to certain acts.
Female-led relationships
Female-led relationships(FLR) is all about women on top.
This could look like sex centering on her pleasure or her deciding when and how sex should be had.
Auralism
Auralismis just the word for having a sound kink, i.e.
being turned on by hearing things.
Orgasm control
This kink is common among people who are generally interested in BDSM.
It’s exactly what it says on the tin: letting your partner control the timing of your orgasm.
This is often achieved through the use of bondage.
This kink speaks to people who like to experiment with power and sensation.
It’s important when exploring this kink that the person who is gagged can still communicate.
People who are a little unsure of themselves or who struggle withattachment issuesmay be particularly into this kink.
Degradation kink
A degradation kink can be considered the opposite of a praise kink.
A furry is someone who is turned on by imagining themselves and others as anthropomorphic animals.
“As a sexual practice, this is often a very fun way to connect with your partner.
After being wrapped up, pictures are sometimes taken for gratification at a later date.
verify to leave air holes around the nose and mouth, warns Lawrenz.
This kink is for you if you’re into restraint and control (and ancient history!).
Kinks vs. fetishes
OK, so what’s thedifference between a kink and a fetish?
Afetishis something that primarily defines and is inextricably linked to one’s sexual behavior,” says Zrenchik.
Fetishes are often all-encompassing and the focal point of a person’s erotic life.
