Ever dreamed of being someone else just for the night?
Then sexual role-play may be something you’ll enjoy.
How role-play works.
Role-play is when you take on the persona of someone else while having sex.
Why you may want to try it.
“Sexual role play can bring elements of play and novelty to a relationship.
Role-play is also a chance to step outside of the everyday rules you usually live your life by.
Starting the conversation.
Nurse and patient
This role-play is great for people who want to play with dynamics of care.
Add extra flavor to this one by actually checking into a hotel and making a real weekend of it.
This one can be hot for people who are monogamous and are craving a feeling of novelty.
About to take off
More nuts anyone?
says relationship and sexuality coachPrandhara Prem.
This role-play is great for people who like to break rules and have sex in unexpected places.
Invest in a cute little maid’s costume for an extra kick.
Choose someone with a safe amount of distance.
Get ready to be punished for letting the dog eat your homework.
Hypnotic love
“In this role-play, one person can be ahypnotistand the other will be hypnotized.
The hypnotized loses control of their actions.
This is perfect for someone wanting to get over inhibitions or push their personal boundaries,” recommends Prem.
Electrician and housewife
Ring, ring.
Who’s at the door?
It’s the electrician who comes to service your appliances and…you.
Unfortunately, you don’t have any cash on you…
The survival of the human race depends on you screwing as much as you might.
This role-play is fun for people who are adventurous and like to dress up.
The possibilities for space-themed sexy outfits are endless.
The shakedown
One of you is a guard, and the other is suspected of smuggling contraband.
“But the officer is determined and will stop at nothing,” says Prem.
This role-play is perfect for those who are turned on by a good old-fashioned power struggle.
Do you usually gravitate to power play?
Then this one’s for you.
“There’s no denying itrole-play is a powerful place to explore power dynamics,” says Davis-Fainbloom.
She suggests alternating between the roles of dominant and submissive to see which one works best for you.
This role-play is another one that’s based on power dynamics, just like boss and worker.
you could wear slinky little wrestler outfits and even have a wrestler persona and new name.
This role-play “gets the blood and adrenaline moving,” says Prem.
“Anyone feeling touch-deprived or sad can do this for a boost or quick pick-me-up.”
Whatever you want!
The sky is really the limit when it comes to role-play.
Tips to keep in mind.
Setting boundaries is of the utmost importance when experimenting with role-play, says Prem.
Spell out to your partner what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not.
see to it you’re on the same page before diving in.
Establish a framework together for what things are off-limits and what things you both think are sexy.
