Ah, the good ol' 69.
The 69 sex position.
The 69 position is anoral sex positionwhere two partners are giving each other oral sex simultaneously.
69ing also shows up in the Kama Sutra under the name “the congress of a crow.”
How it works.
To get into the classic 69 position, one partner lies flat on their back.
The second partner then climbs on top of them with their head facing their partner’s feet.
This makes it a great choice for couples who want to rediscover their sexual passion for each other.
You’re a big oral sex fan.
For many people with vulvas, oral sex is the only way they canachieve orgasm during partnered sex.
You want to balance the pleasure ratio in your sex life.
Some couples experience a skewed distribution of oral sex, which they may wish to rectify.
As tantric therapist and sex coachRenee Adolphepoints out, no one can be left out when 69ing.
You like a lot of stimulation.
The 69 position is wonderful for people who want a variety of stimuli to turn them on.
This combination can lead toextra-strong orgasms.
The satisfaction of making your partner feel good is an intense aphrodisiac.
Variations of the 69 position.
Get handsy.
“If your mouth needs to rest a bit, use your hands on the genitals.
Respect what your body is feeling and needing,” says Adolphe.
There’s no shame in needing to give your tongue a break.
Swing time!
The benefit of this variation is that it allows for easy spanking access for the person squatting.
Standing up
Another variation for those of you who hit the gym is the standing 69.
Introduce a third party.
Tips & techniques to optimize pleasure:
Comfort is No.
“First and foremost, do what is comfortable for you both.
It’s hard to enjoy something if you are physically uncomfortable,” says Zrenchik.
Don’t attempt to push past discomfort just to yo your partner; it’s a lose-lose situation.
Use props.
Take a wash first.
All bodies have odors and scents; they’re natural, healthy, and sexy.
Lube, lube, lube.
(Here are somenatural lubesyou can also consider.)
Work out.
Mix up the position.
It can be nearly impossible to orgasm if you’re in unwanted physical pain or discomfort.
Making simple adjustments can go a long way to improving the experience for all involved.
Bring in a butt plug.
If you want to maximize the pleasure, choose abutt plug that vibratesorsimulates rimming.
(Here are some moreanal sex toysto consider.)
What to do with a height difference.
If you and your partner have a significant height difference, don’t fear!
you’re able to also evade the problem by being creative.
The bottom line.
So there you have it: a range of ways to try out 69ing!
