Their idea of foreplay, for example, is to hear about your book collection.
An easy way to seduce your sapiosexual is to get to know them for who they are.
(Here’s ourfull guide to dirty talkfor a little inspo.)
“For many sapiosexuals, it’ll provide enough verbal fodder and foreplay for days,” she remarks.
There’s a big chance your sapiosexual loves getting lost in the large, expansive aisles of endless knowledge.
Participate in their interest, but spice it up and turn it into a make-out tour.
And, of course, sneak some kisses between the bookshelves.
Another option is to start abook club.
Sapiosexual people are eager to learn new things.
In addition to that, exploring these spaces together gives you a chance to understand each other’s interests.
Yes, sapiosexuals are attracted to intelligence, but they don’t expect you to know everything.
And remember, there are multiple ways to be intelligent.
Instead, tell them when you’re clueless.
On your next date, be honest when you don’t know something.
Keep playing until the game is over, or when everyone’s as naked as they’re comfortable being.
(Feel free to spice this game up with a strip-twist, too.)
Are you both fans of Alan Watts, for instance?
Plan a Watts-themed date night.
“Use your imagination, get creative, and go deeper,” urges Sweet.
“Sapiosexuals love that!”
Expressions of intelligence are sure to gain the attraction of a sapiosexual.
One way to show off your intellect is to ensure your verbal and communication skills match theirs.
The sapiosexual you desire wants to hear you talk about topics you’re knowledgeable in.
“If you’re really passionate about a topic, show your passion while you discuss it.”
“Do you believe in fate?”
or “How does one attain happiness?”
(Here are a bunch of deepconversation starters for couples.)
“This is the sapiosexual equivalent of slowly undressing with your eyes,” emphasizes Morse.
To send them over the edge, clearly articulate your words.
If you succeed, she says, one set of oral skills may lead to another.
What is your sapiosexual’s favorite podcast?
The most important thing about the activity to explore taboo subjects together is to do so respectfully.
She also mentions these taboo subjects are not only incredibly explorative but also imperative to be honest about.
Afternoons in the shed can easily result in you two in bed.
Like most people, sapiosexuals appreciate good looks, but it’s not what keeps them.