When you hear the term “free spirit,” what comes to mind?
Maybe it’s a young, rebellious child, or a quirky but wise elder.
Maybe you even think of yourself.
We asked the experts.
What does being a “free spirit” really mean?
She notes this can look like living unconventionally, with an aversion to being boxed in or tied down.
Is it a good thing to be a free spirit?
According to Richardson, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with leaning into your authenticity.
Kaiser adds that indeed, those who don’t relate can perceive free spirits negatively.
They can come off as stubborn, messy, flaky or noncommittal, unreasonable, and even standoffish.
But remember, this all depends on who you ask.
Free spirits will appreciate other free spiritsbut those who don’t identify simply may not “get” them.
Intuitive
These folks areintuitiveand guided by their own strong inner voice.
Independent
As you could imagine, free spirits are also usually very independent.
Open
Richardson notes free spirits are naturally open people.
Authentic
There’s nothing free spirits value more than authenticity.
Unique
Along with being authentic, free spirits are unique.
This sensitivity toward themselves and others is also what pushes them to do their own thing.
Courageous
“Fear” is not a big factor for the free spirits of the world.
In fact, Kaiser says, fear is “an invitation to push forward.”
These people know how to solve problems, so troubles don’t easily intimidate them, she adds.
Their aforementioned courage and authenticity are like that of a child.
Adventurous
Kaiser notes these folks live for adventure.
In fact, she says, they find stability in it.
It requires ambition to forge your own path, but free spirits are born with what it takes.
As Kaiser notes, “They dream big and often follow through.
They dont like wasting time, and they give 200% in everything they do.”
Free spirits always want to try new things and keep life fresh.
Keep exploring.
Find your kindred spirits.
Don’t let the world harden you.
Feel your feelings.
Stay grounded.
And lastly, Richardson notes it’s important for free spirits to stay grounded.
Anything that gives these folks a healthy dose of structure now and then will help them stay balanced.
