Sweet says spooning is a “traditional position” that indicates protectiveness and comfort in the relationship.

Don’t mistake those few inches for lack of intimacy, though.

The other, less literal interpretation is that the partner doing the drifting wants to be pursued.

Allie White

Like the Loose Spoon, this position is typical of couples who’ve been together for some time.

Though they start out touching (the Knot), they eventually “unravel” into independence.

About 23% of couples fall asleep in this position, according to Sweet’s study.

Kristie Overstreet, Ph.D., LPCC, LMHC, CST

The Back Kissers fall asleep back-to-back, with contact along the spine.

You’re connected but independent enough to appreciate your own space in bed.

Another position more common with established couples, the Liberty Lovers sleep back-to-back, but with space between them.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Sweet’s study found 27% of couples fall sleep this way.

Despite facing opposite directionsandnot touching, this position actually indicates you’re connected and secure.

it’s possible for you to be close without touching, sharing a bed but independent.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Not the sexiest name on the list but one that indicates a high level of comradeship.

It indicates confidence in the relationship.

The ultimate sign of trust and protection, the Nuzzle is common in new and rekindled relationships.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Ah, young love!

It’s an incredibly intimate position that means you’re able to’t get enough of each other.

Just 2% of couples prefer this position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

The Leg Hug is a little unclear, as it can indicate a number of things.

If you’re both intertwined, you’re equally passionate, and the emotional and sexual connection is strong.

Just like your legs, your lives are blended and balanced.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

A couple that sleeps on their stomachs might want to think about having a conversation.

Conversely, if your heads are parallel, you are like-minded equals.

Remember these are just clues and interpretations, not diagnoses.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.

Illustration of a popular couples sleeping position.