He’s not interested in you.
He wants to wait until your relationship is further along.
Some peopleguys includeddon’t want to have sex until the relationship reaches a certain stage.
Sometimes it’s also less about the relationship labels or milestones and more about theemotional connection.
He’s waiting for the right time.
If there are othersigns of attractionbetween you, sex might be right around the corner.
He doesn’t realize you want to have sex.
Not everyone is great at sensing when someone wants to have sex with them.
He’s not a very sexual person.
Some peopleincluding some guysare simply not that interested in sex.
“Some never feel the need to seek out trying to increase their desire for sexual intimacy.”
He’s dealing with a lot of stress in his personal life.
Stress can be a libido killer.
“For many people, stress and worry shut down the systems that would create sexual desire.”
He’s depressed.
Depression is linked to lower libido1, as are antidepressants.
He has other health issues that affect his sex drive.
He’s nervous.
), or because they get nervous about sex in general.
Help him relax and have fun.
He’s upset about something in your relationship.
“And sometimes people withhold sex out of anger and frustration.”
So just ask him about it!
Respect his boundaries.
Never pressure someone into having sex when they don’t want to have it.
Flirt and initiate.
If he’s not into it, refer to the above two tips and back off.
