How to encourage someone with words
Be prepared to really listen.
verify youreceive what they sharewith the respect and urgency it deserves.
Don’t make assumptions about their situation.
Vandenbroeck also recommends reassuring the other person that you’re not there to judge them.
Ask what kind of support they need.
Vandenbroeck recommendsasking open-ended questionsto allow this person to freely express what’s on their mind and heart.
Offer support and resources.
If you have the capacity for it, you may offer continuous support.
When in doubt, don’t hesitate to communicate this and help seek other options.
A simple “I’m here for you” can be enough to keep someone going.
But this also won’t always be the case.
And remember, to be a pillar of strength, you better look after yourself too.
